We have a neighbor, he’s a single Dad, with two girls ages 7 and 12. Sometimes our kids play outside in the afternoon on the weekends. One afternoon as I walked up to the kids outside, I happened upon the last few seconds of a “TikTok” video that our neighbor’s 12 year old daughter was making. As I approached she quickly turned off the phone and put it in her pocket. What was most disturbing about this 5 second observation was not that I surprised her as I walked up to check